Kid Friendly Breakfast To Start the Day Right :: Guest Post : Angela Martin

We have all been told that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, but with the constant rush of weekday mornings, who has time for a healthy breakfast?

When we give our kids a quick fix, like cereal, their blood sugar quickly rises, followed by a huge crash– leaving them tired and hungry.

Yes, it can be challenging to feed our kids a healthy meal before getting them off to school but the good news is that it’s not impossible. Actually, it’s easy! There are so many great recipes that will start their day off the right way– meals packed with fiber, slow burning carbs and protein. The key is to have a few quick recipes up your sleeve and of course, being prepared.

Before we get into the recipes, I want to remind you why this is a crucial area to dedicate a little more of your time and attention. Making sure our kids are well fed before leaving the house is important because not only do we need to fuel our bodies we also need to fuel our brains.

Studies show that a meal packed with “brain foods” such as protein, omega 3 fats and B vitamins will encourage concentration, memory, and brain development. Best of all a healthy balance of brain foods can reduce mood swings and boost energy levels.

Here are some recipes to try:

Green Eggs

Take 4 eggs and put them in a blender with a handful of spinach. Blend until smooth and green. Cook just as you would scrambled eggs. Kids love them because they are green– you love them because they are eating spinach before 8AM! Be sure and add some fruit or whole wheat toast. Kids need a balance of protein and carbohydrates at every meal.

Yogurt Bowls

Yogurt can be a hidden vessel for sugar. Some brands can sneak in over 30 grams of sugar per serving– that’s 7.5 teaspoons! Yikes. Here’s a great tip– use vanilla yogurt and add plain Greek yogurt. I have  yet to meet a kid yet who can tell the difference. By adding Greek yogurt you are adding more protein to their meal. In small serving bowls put dried fruit, fresh fruit, nuts, seeds and get your kids to make their own favorite combinations.

Toast and Nut/Seed Butter

When choosing bread  for your child consider the fiber. You want a brand that has at least 3-5 grams of fiber per serving– or more! This is a great opportunity to get some whole grains into their little mouths too. Be sure and look for breads that actually say “whole grain” in the ingredients listed. Add some nut butter– sunflower seed butter is a favorite in our house– 7 grams of protein per serving.

English Muffin Faces

Take a whole wheat muffin and toast it. Spread with good quality cream cheese. Use some cucumber and cherry tomatoes to make a “face.” Blueberries and almonds are fun too!

I hope I have inspired you to be creative and think outside the cereal box. Be the one that gives your kids’ a healthy start to their day—their health depends on it.  Be well and happy eating…

Angela Martin is a Personal Health Coach trained through the Institute of Integrated Nutrition. As a mother of two young children, Angela knows how difficult it can be to commit to self care.  Her passion lies in empowering, motivating and supporting mothers to start taking care of themselves.  You can learn more about her at www.marinhealthyliving.com or email her at angela@marinhealthyliving.com

The Balancing Act of Co-Parenting


Before I had kids, I heard a talk from a parenting coach who suggested “if you want someone to co-parent with you, you have to let them parent their way.”

 

Pre-kids, this seemed really obvious and a clear way my husband and I would raise kids.  After all, this wasn’t the 1950s, we both would be contributing to our family’s finances and we both would be contributing to raising our kids.

 

Fast forward to actually having kids, and like so many things I thought before children — co-parenting is easier said than done.

 

I drive my husband crazy when I tell the kids no treats until they finish their lunch, but later give in after a ‘few more bites,’ and I really wish he would not get the kids completely wound up right before the bedtime routine starts.

 

But should we really be parenting the same?

 

Think of any other situation where people work together for a common goal, really no where do two people have the same job or are expected to do it the same way.  A baseball team needs a pitcher and a first baseman, a company needs a CEO and CFO, a high school needs an art teacher and a math teacher.  We don’t judge the successes of the art teacher by her math skills, why do we judge each other parenting skills based on our own.

 

It is my experience that parenting is a middle game, and one of communication and compromises.{click to tweet that!}  I try to ask for what I need more often and judge his style of school lunch making less.  I think back to that bit of pre-kid advice, he is happy to pack the school lunches,  and I have to let him do it his way…even if it is not right mine.

 

My husband and I don’t parent our kids the same way, but I think my husband and I each bring a unique and special thing to the parenting table.

 

My kids get cleaner in the bath with dad than with me.  He is way more apt to wrestle on the floor after dinner or play a board game, where I prefer to suggest ‘movie night’ after a long day. He reminds them to cover their mouths when they sneeze and enforces the “pleases” and “thank yous” more than I do.  I let my kids paint the side of the laundry room with mud, but never forget to bring diapers and snacks when we leave the house.

 

No matter who enforces dinnertime rules or who makes sure the doctor appointments are scheduled, my husband and I are grounded in our bigger parenting goals.  We want to raise friendly, confident, independent kids who know they are loved unconditionally, by both parents, and know they are part of bigger team—our family.

What ways do you and your partner parent differently?  Can you embrace those difference as a positive?

 

Camesha - Oh boy! This post couldn’t be more true. My husband and I differ totally in our parenting styles. The thing is I have to know when to pull back and let him do things his way. That was hard and sometimes it still is. I just remind myself that at the end of the kids we both love our babies to pieces and they know it. What more could I ask for?

Cara - Great blog! And so timely too. I shall be sharing this with the hubby and a number of friends who struggle with different parenting styles.

Jessica - Yes! It’s so easy to get caught up in the differences part – and not see how the bigger picture of your family values is being served.

Lovely post!

Beryl - I absolutely love this post. It’s so true that we each bring something unique and different to the table. My husband and I have said forever that “we make a good team” and think that’s because we each have our special strengths. He’s great at playtime, and sticking to routines. I’m great at coming up with fun activities and conversation. Thanks for sharing this!

Jen - This is *great*, Meg! And I love the photos.

Franky - Great post by Megan!! I enjoyed reading this article and whatever shared regarding co-parenting absolutely true. To become a inspiring parents I’ll definitely share this post with my wife as well. Thanks a lot.

Cathy | The Health Coach Group - Great topic! My husband and I have raised 3 generations of children…(I am really not that old)…we are on our granddaughter now. I am patient and nurturing…my husband is stern and demanding. Somehow, we have balance each other out and our children are great. Of course, with my children…I was in charge and he was at the golf course…time and age changes things too. Thanks!

Bianca | Video For Shy People - Megan, I’m not a parent but I totally loved this post! I think that there’s benefits to having both parents having a different approach. Growing up, I know my mom and dad had their own style to it, but they were both grounded on the same values. So I think that as long as both parents are on the same page on the big picture they have for their kids and the family, parenting styles and approaches can differ.

minista jazz - I was a single parent for nearly 11 years before meeting my husband. I was so use to making all of the decisions for myself. We parent differently of course but it works. We are both pretty hands off with the kids but his expectations are really high. I tell him even though they are teens there are things that they need to be shown. I love this article! Thank you for sharing.

Christie - One thing I appreciate so much about co-parenting is that my hubby and I have completely different talents to bring to the table. He’s happy to help with math homework and teach the kids music. I’m all for anything that involves writing and imagination. He’s way more likely to stay calm and cool when explaining tricky subjects (you know the ones I mean). I’m better at handling all the bodily fluid explosions that go along with sick kids!

3 Questions With Mama :: Ursula Markgraf

I am excited to welcome Ursula Markgraf all the way from Germany today for our 3 questions with mama series!  (If you missed the first one, you can read that here)!  I love meeting mamas who are working towards finding their own groove and embracing their own revival and can give us some tips on their process…and reminders that it is process for all of us!

Hi Ursula! Before we start, tell us a little about you and your family.

My name is Ursula and my family consists of my husband, my two kids and our dog. My son is 3 and my daughter is 7 and I am at the moment still full-time taking care of my son. I am also working in my own business, which I built around  my passion “creativity” – my dream is to inspire and encourage other women to be creative!

I started this business because I was super frustrated with the fact that my old job did not allow me to be there for my kids when I wanted to and I had to arrange all my life around that job. To me having a work that I  love but that also allows me to live my life the way I want is just a dream come true! You can read more about it on my website www.ursulamarkgraf.com There you can also find my online-shop where I sell my handmade buttons.

Question #1: What is your favorite tip for taking care of yourself when you need a quick pick-me-up?

One of my favourite pick-me-ups is going for a walk. Even just a walk around the neighborhoud for a couple minutes gives me some quiet time and somehow grounds me and lets me be more calm. However, you need someone to watch the kids meanwhile. If I am alone with the kids and things are really crazy I will “take a break” by making myself a cup of tea. Also drawing a couple of deep breaths. This doesn’t sound like much but once I am more calm it is alot easier to cope.


Question #2:  How do you find balance between your family and your personal time?

Oh goodness, who says I have balance?!  
I have to admit it took me quite long to realize that I even need time just for myself – no family, no business. But striving for balance totally stressed me. So I gave up. Best thing I ever did!

I do however make sure that I have time for myself EVERY DAY – even if it is only for a short meditation or 10 minutes of drawing. Just spending a couple minutes each day WITH and FOR myself makes a HUGE difference to how I feel!And better than waiting for a two-hour break at the weekend that might never happen.

Question #3.  What is your favorite way to spend time with your kids?

I love to take my kids on “adventures”. (That is what they call it.) Going to the library, the zoo, or just to a park that they might not know yet is just awesome. Being with them in nature. However, those are things we do not do every day. Those are more the “special” days. I try to make sure to have many “calm” days where we just play in the big backyard, read, draw, craft, have a picnic – things that do not take alot of effort to do but are really enjoyable.

Thanks so much for answering my questions!

Be sure to head over to Ursula’s site and check out her amazing buttons, they truly are a work of art!

Ursula-the crafting gypsy - Thanks for having me, Megan! So honoured! :-)

xox,

Ursula

Kirby Kolts - Good to see so planned situation in family :)

Your Personal Goals -Its Just Like Riding A Bike

My son learned how to ride a bike this weekend.  He certainly hasn’t mastered it yet, and we still need some practice sessions before we hit the open road…but man is he making progress.
As moms, it is so rewarding when we see our kids make strides towards accomplishing their goals.

As moms, I think we should take as much pride in striving towards our personal goals and we do in our kids’ progress.

Here is what I learned this weekend about accomplishing our goals.

Take It One Step At A Time:

The first day we took off the training wheels, Brady and I went up and down the street once with me holding on to him the whole time.  He was successful and it kept it fun for him.  We could have spent an hour out there, practicing and practicing, but I think he would have burned out and possibly gotten hurt, discouraging him from going further.

Learning to ride a bike is hard work.  You may be feeling that way about your goal too.  But try breaking it down into the smallest possible first step and then just do that.  Just ride your bike up and down the block once, and you will be on your way to accomplishing your bigger goal!

 

A Good Support Team and Cheerleaders Makes a Difference

Like I said above, I held onto Brady the whole time that first time out.  I was his support (literal and figuratively) and his cheerleader, giving him confidence to try again.

Moms need a support team too!  You need someone to hold onto the back of your bike until you are ready to go it alone.  Moms need their own Mommy Advisory Board.  Pick the people on your advisory board who support you the way you need to be supported in different situations.  That friend who always cheers you up? Call her when you are feeling down or confused.  The friend that tells it to you straight, call her when you need help making a decision (but don’t call her when you just want to vent)

 

Going Faster is Sometimes Easier

This bit of advice actually came from my husband when he watched Brady ride.  He was right, once Brady picked up his speed, he could balance better.

Starting something new is really scary and we sometimes inch along.  But sometimes you have to leap, or pedal faster, and it is actually easier that way.  Build up some momentum that will keep you moving toward your goal.

 

You Have to Learn to Recover From a Few Falls Too

Luckily, Brady hasn’t had a major crash yet, but he did tip over once while trying to learn to stop on his own.  But he untangled himself from his bike and tried one more time.

We are all going to hit roadblocks and have our own versions of a fall.  The day we plan to work on the draft of our novel, someone is going to be home from school sick.  The day our marathon training starts, the car is going to get a flat tire.  The emergency trip to the vet is going to trump working on you new business.

But its ok. Get back up, untangle your self from your bike, break down your goal, call your support team and pick up your momentum. 

Your goal is at the end of the road.


What personal goal are you working on?  Tell me in the comments!

Kim - Amazing advice for bike riding and life. I’m so inspired. The personal goal that I am working on right now is taking it one step at a time. I seem to have two speeds – over the top + nothing at all. When it’s over the top, I’m trying to do WAY too much, when it’s nothing at all, I’m so exhausted that I just have nothing left.

I just love this so much and it is amazing advice + the bike ride video is precious. Now, I’m inspired to take the training wheels off of my 8 year old’s bike, I know we should’ve taught her years ago, but she’s learning this year.

Megan - Thanks Kim! I am so glad you are inspired! Brady learning to ride his bike has inspired ME! I know what you mean about your two speeds, I often feel that way too. Try to slow down a bit when you are going all out. Write down a realistic goal for the day and when you accomplish that, then take a break and have some down time.
I can’t wait to see the video of your daughter too!

rebecca@altaredspaces.com - I love the advice about going faster is actually easier. I am such a thinker and I love to analyze. This often slows me down. Action! That is such a ticket! And this bike-riding analogy is a great picture to offer to me why that works.

Ursula-the crafting gypsy - Awesome post! I especially love your third point – kinda unexpected. At least for me. *laugh* But true!

xox,

URsula

50 Ways To Be Nice To Yourself

Moms take care of everyone.

We take care of our families, our kids schools, our coworkers, our friends, our communities, and sometimes strangers.

Its often not until everything else and everyone else is taken care of, do we stop to think about ourselves.

I wrote about the importance of being our own mothers and taking care of ourselves with the same level of care we put into to caring for everyone else.  We ARE the caretaker of our families and our world and they need us.  So we need to be on our game, and that can’t happen if we are not taking care of ourselves as well.

We would never expect our car to function if we never fill it with gas, so today I challenge you to pick some way to fill your own personal gas tank.  I have given you 50 ideas of something nice you can do for yourself.  Which one will you pick?

  1. Breathe
  2. Go to bed early
  3. Light a scented candle
  4. Buy a new iphone app
  5. Blow dry your hair
  6. Put on makeup
  7. Sit in the sun
  8. Write in your journal
  9. Buy a new lip gloss
  10. Call a girlfriend
  11. Shave your legs
  12. Sip a flavored coffee
  13. Pick yourself flowers
  14. Take a nap
  15. Get a pedicure
  16. Go for a walk
  17. Hide a note in a loved ones bag
  18. Plant a seed
  19. Check out a library book
  20. Watch a random tv show under a blanket
  21. Sit quietly
  22. Leave the dishes
  23. 20 minutes of yoga
  24. Meditate
  25. Hand write a note
  26. Start a gratitude journal
  27. Buy the expensive chocolate
  28. Drink a green juice
  29. Where the special occasion jewelry on an average Wednesday
  30. Spend 20 guilt-free minutes on Facebook
  31. Leave your phone at home for the entire day
  32. Write your grandmother (living or passed) a thank you note
  33. Don’t count the calories
  34. Google something you always wondered about
  35. Jump off the diving board
  36. Pay for a strangers bridge toll/coffee/gas/groceries
  37. Invest in yourself
  38. Purge without feeling guilty
  39. Make fresh squeezed lemonade
  40. Do a face mask
  41. Take a bubble bath
  42. Choose the take out
  43. Play your favorite song…loud
  44. Go for a run
  45. Put your feet up
  46. Cook your favorite childhood dish
  47.  Create a mantra
  48. Look at old photos
  49. Say out loud, “I’m am a perfect mom for my family”
  50. Smile

Leave me a comment below with which act of kindness you’ll do for yourself today.  I can’t wait to hear how well we are all taking care of ourselves!

Natascha - What a great list, it made me smile :-) So I already did one thing from it today.

Christie Halmick - So far today I have…#1 Breathe, #6 put on makeup, #16 gone for a walk, #46 cook your favorite childhood dish (well that was yesterday, but I ate leftovers today), and #50 smile!

Ursula-the crafting gypsy - Love this post! Nice reminder – and what a fun list!

xox,

Ursula

Sue Ann Gleason - I love it that we have to remind ourselves at times that it’s an act of self love to shave our legs, sit quietly or light a candle. Thank you for the beautiful list. I’m not a mama but I can totally relate.